Monday 8 June 2015

10 good things that can come out of a bad date

Most people in relationships will tell you they never found their true love by just going on one date.
Maybe after kissing one too many frogs and sitting in too many bad dates, they get to meet the man/woman of their dreams.
But there are some things a bad date can actually teach you so you don't have to repeat the same mistakes over and over again.
Tan of All Women Stalk lists 10 good things you can get out of a bad date:

  1. Practice makes perfect: Wouldn’t you want to be perfect on your date with the man of your dreams? Wouldn’t you love to know how to dress, what to order, what to talk about, what not to talk about like a pro? Well, you can make as many mistakes on a date you know is not going anywhere to become a pro for later.
  2. You get a good laugh with your friends later: Now, who does not like a hilarious story? If nothing else, you will have an interesting yet funny story to tell your friends about how terrible the date was. You can laugh about their actions, and your weird conversations, and everything else; the worse the date, the better the story!
  3. It gives you a new perspective: You may have had a bad break-up in the past, which made you housebound and sad. Going out on dates can actually give you a fresh new perspective of life and change you slowly for the better.
  4. You come out of the house to explore and have fun: You may like to be confined in your house after a bad break-up or just because you are shy. Good or bad, you at least get out of the house to let your hair lose, and have some fun.
  5. You know what you want in your Mr./ Mrs. Perfect: All the things, that your date does that disgusts you, make you sure of what you want and definitely do not want in your Mr./Ms. Perfect. Your bad date may make you question your decision of coming out with them. Their rude behaviour, be it eating with their mouth open, talking loudly, not holding the door open for you or being nasty to the waiters, will only convince you of what not to look for.
  6. You get to dress up: The most exciting thing about going on a date is definitely getting to dress up for it. What is better is that, you get you a million compliments, which is the cherry on the cake! And, not to mention the hundred selfies you get to click of yourself looking gorgeous.
  7. You get to visit new eating joints: Not only do you get to look good and have a good time, but you also get to visit the best restaurants, cafes and pubs. A guy would obviously want to take the girl to the best joints to impress her.
  8. When you find Mr./Mrs. you know you have made the right choice: When you finally meet your soulmate after a series of horrendous dates, you value them and appreciate them much more. You would have already met many less desirable people on all your dates before you would meet your Mr./Ms. Right.
  9. You can ask your parents to stop looking: If your parents cannot wait to get you married off at any given second, you can put a hold on their thoughts by telling them you are going on a date. You can tell them if things work out, this person might be their future son-in-law or daughter-in-law!
  10. You get more confident than before:  Bad dates make you a more confident person. They make you realise your self-worth, and that you should not settle for anything but the best! Whenever you are on a bad date, remember what does not break you, makes you stronger.

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